What are you doing to sabotage yourself?

Are you still thinking about your ex?  Are you still thinking she should come crawling back, because you were right?  Are you wasting your life thinking that being right should make her come back?

It is a hard lesson to learn that being "right" won’t make you popular or desirable, especially to women.  You will just end up "right" and alone.

Whatever happened is done, right or wrong, good or bad, it is over.  It didn’t keep you together then and it won’t bring you back together now or in the future.  If you want to get her back or just move on, you need to do the same thing.  You need to move on and put your life back together.  Women are not attracted to weak men who wallow in self pity, pining after them.  They are attracted to confident men whose lives’ are interesting and full.  You need to put your life back on track and start filling it with interesting things.  You need to succeed in your goals.  You do have goals don’t you?  Women can also smell lack of ambition from miles away.  You need to improve yourself and your life in order to attract more women.

You may think that women like to be chased, but this isn’t so.  Women like to chase.  If you are always available and there for them, they will run all over you and dump you for someone who isn’t.  Fill your life with fun, important activities and projects and put them before the women in your life.  Schedule your meetings around your activities, not instead of them.

Fix you.  Get your priorities straight.  Never put them in front of you or your life.  You are more important than them.  And this is what will draw them to you.  Most men put them on a pedestal, but you should be putting you and your life on the pedestal.  This will cause them to want to share the pedestal with you.  The harder you make it to get up there with you the more they will want to be there.  Don’t cave and if you let them visit your pedestal make sure to knock them back off, so that they will want back up on it again.

You are number one.

Dolmon

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Woe is us men………

If you put a woman on a pedestal and try to protect her from the rat race, you’re a male chauvinist.
If you stay home and do the housework, you’re a sissy.

If you work too hard, there is never any time for her.
If you don’t work enough, you’re a good-for-nothing bum.

If she has a boring repetitive job with low pay, this is exploitation.
If you have a boring repetitive job with low pay, you should get off your but and find something better.

If you mention how nice she looks, it’s sexual harassment.
If you keep quiet, it’s male indifference.

If you get a promotion ahead of her, that is favoritism.
If she gets a job ahead of you, it’s equal opportunity.

If you cry, you’re a wimp.
If you don’t, you’re an insensitive jerk.

If you thump her, it’s wife bashing.
If she thumps you, it’s self defense.

If you make a decision without consulting her, you’re a chauvinist.
If she makes a decision without consulting you, she’s a liberated woman.

If you appreciate the female form and frilly underwear, you’re a pervert.
If you don’t, you’re a fag.

If you ask her to do something she doesn’t enjoy, that’s domination.
If she asks you, it’s a favor.

If you like a woman to shave her legs and keep in shape, you’re sexist.
If you don’t, you’re unromantic.

If you try to keep yourself in shape, you’re vain.
If you don’t, you’re a slob.

If you buy her flowers, you’re after something.
If you don’t, you’re not thoughtful.

If you’re proud of your achievements, you’re up on yourself.
If you don’t, you’re not ambitious.

If she has a headache, she’s tired.
If you have a headache, you don’t love her anymore.

If you want it too often, you’re oversexed.
If you don’t, there must be someone else.

Have more?  Post them in a comment.

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